A Brief Return To Play

Hey there -

So, last night I had a play date with my leather bro CJ. She is such a great top. I drove out to Lake Villa where she lives with her 3 other room mates, so I initially thought we would not have any privacy. However, I was glad I was wrong.  CJ has her own room of course and an adjacent smaller room whereby both rooms share a bathroom. In the 2nd bedroom, there wasn't a bed, so of course I was like, where am I going to sleep. CJ is the most observant person I know and before I asked my question, she told me that she has an air mattress and a top memory foam pad. I will say, it was pretty damn comfortable to sleep on. 

Before we got started, we had gone out to dinner, however, both of us were not about to wait an hour or more at Outback Steakhouse in Gurnee.  So, we both said, "PIZZA". So we went back to the house, ordered a pizza which was absolutely fabulous, Jimano's. Good price, nice crust, great sauce, and the sausage was not greasy at all, which made eating great for my stomach. I certainly did not want any issues later on when we played.

The extra room was big enough, and I was admiring the back wall which was like a chalk board and CJ, who loves dragons, had drawn a dragon in sidewalk chalk on the wall along with an elf. This is kind of cool, I thought to myself. Of course we laughed later because I used the wall to lean on when our scene started. She doesn't have the basement set up yet for allowing cuffs and chains on a overhead post, usually it looks like a X cross, which is super comfortable.  Thankfully I brought my cuffs because I need the feeling of the cuffs to keep me in the right head space while CJ flogged me.  We call it honor bondage in the community. So, of course, I'm leaning against the wall and I got chalk all over my forearms and hands, and then I wiped my hands on my shorts.  Hilarious.  The two of us are both switches, which means we can bottom or top, meaning, take pain or give pain. Either way works. Last night, I got to take the pain. She is masterful and we took our time to not take me too high or overwhelmed. It was a perfect high and once I started gigling which happened fairly quickly, like within 30 minutes, I was almost exhausted already.

CJ and I have known each other for over 20 years, and have played together on many occasion so it was easy to feel safe and connected to her in the way we both need to be for the success of the scene. The best part for me is when we were done, I leaned back into her and she held me close which was a nice slow cool down.